I want my alpha men

Dating is a necessarily painful part of the single life and finding the perfect man is like finding the pin in stack of straw - it requires skill, planning, patience and a large dose of luck. Could I get one?

I want a man who pats me on the head because he thinks I'm adorable inner and outer, not only because physical attraction.

I want a man who has positive outlook and regard for himself and others.

I want a man who has a large capacity to accept love and give and express love.

I want a man who needs to enjoy life, have a positive spirit, lots of energy, and have a passion for his life.

I want a man who is cleverer than me but doesn't realise it, because he's not so competitive and insecure for that kind of thing to cross his mind.

I want a man who understands that I have good reason to be angry, and that reason isn't only bullies.

I want a man who doesn't think that my asking him to help is nagging.

I want a man who can accept the bad things I've done in the past (and realise everyone could make mistakes).

I want a man who understands that, unless I give permission, there's only one entrance. And if it's a bit further forward?, thank you very much.

I want a man who will give me space and let me do my own thing, but be there at my back and call if my own thing includes him.

I want a man who isn't afraid to do things the old fashioned way: playing guitar in front of me, doing something called romantic only for me because he is deeply in love with me.

I want a man Who wants to know all about my family, my work, my activities, or either I need his help not just my bra size.

I want a man who occasionally patronises me, only in an affectionate way, and sometimes makes me feel like a little girl who needs looking after.

I want a man who adores every inch of me, good and bad, flabby and firm, thin and thick, happy and sad, clever and stupid, spotty and stripy, consistent and then not so, confused yet certain.

I want a man who tells me when I am too much.

I want a man who is reliable!! In all things..

I want a man wise beyond his years.

I want a man with attitude.

Am I asking too much?